I'm serving as the team lead (non-technical) for a software implementation. Last week the vendors came for a site visit to do some initial testing. After a successful week, we said our goodbye's and the representative from logistics headquarters said to me, "I'm not sure what you do here, but you seem important." All I could think of was this classic scene:
I had been doing some work behind the scenes that week. Mostly, I had let the people who were actually using the software to handling the testing functions themselves. To be overly involved seemed like micro-managing to me. But surely I could have done a better job of defining my value, right? I know that introverts tend to have trouble marketing themselves but another thought came to me, this one from the late Iron Lady herself -
Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't. - Margret Thatcher
If I have to emphasize that I'm in the lead, does that highlight insecurities I might have about my control over the project? Does my quiet demeanor mean that I have confidence in my team? Or am I selling myself short by not promoting myself and taking credit where credit is do?