Could Luke Skywalker harness his abilities without Yoda’s wisdom? Would the Banks family learn the importance of family without Mary Poppins? There are no shortage of mentor-mentee relationships in cinema. In these examples, the mentors provide insight to bring out the best in the mentees. Similarly, we can leverage the advantages of mentorships to get ahead and avoid mistakes. Don’t believe me? Here are some perspectives on mentorship from successful public servants.
“Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.” ―Benjamin Franklin
“Search for role models you can look up to and people who take an interest in your career. But here’s an important warning: you don’t have to have mentors who look like you. Had I been waiting for a black, female Soviet specialist mentor, I would still be waiting.” ―Condoleezza Rice
“Mentoring is a brain to pick, an ear to listen, and a push in the right direction.” ―John C. Crosby
In this week’s post, I’ll discuss three qualities to look for in a mentor.
They say the best ability is availability. This rings true for mentor-mentee arrangements. Not surprisingly, your mentor might have a full plate, so be respectful of their time. In my experience, establishing expectations at the outset dispels vagueness. Drafting a mentoring agreement helps to this end. The agreement should include the following:
- Expectations of relationship
- Stated goals
- Confidentiality standard
- Proposed meeting schedule (monthly, quarterly, etc.)
With this is mind, fight for consistency; scheduling the next appointment during a meeting is the way to go. As a mentee, it is helpful for your mentor to send an agenda before the next meeting. That way, both parties are prepared for the discussion.
You want a mentor who has your best interests. An impartial voice is crucial to professional development. As a mentee, display openness towards constructive criticism. This will empower your mentor to be honest. A humble attitude will go a long way in building trust and rapport.
An inspiring mentor possesses desirable qualities and skills. They should also move you to see your potential, especially when you do not see it yourself. However, it is important that they “walk the talk.” Seek someone whose life—not merely professional accomplishments—you admire.
Homer’s magnum opus, the Odyssey, coined the term “mentor”. Odysseus asked his friend Mentor to help watch over his son Telemachus while fighting in the Trojan War. Twenty years later, the goddess of wisdom, Athena, disguises herself as Mentor. At that point, she gives Telemachus advice before he embarks on a quest to discover what happened to his father. In many ways, the crux of mentorship remains the same—getting vital input on a personal journey. As you look for a mentor, make sure they are available, objective, and inspirational. May the Force be with you!
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